Searching and Servitude

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the gift of Al-Anon.

  I’ve stumbled upon something quite brilliant and magical in the last several weeks, and I’ve gotten to the point where I think it is selfish to keep it to … Continue reading

September 25, 2017 · 2 Comments

marriage. ugh.

My homepage this morning shared with me the breaking news that Chris Pratt and Anna Faris have separated. I’m not devastated about this in any form or fashion, but it … Continue reading

August 7, 2017 · Leave a comment

victory over the grave.

Today is a good day. Even if things go downhill from here after 1:23pmET, it is still a good day. Because today is my 3 year Happy No-ReLo Anniversary Day. … Continue reading

February 21, 2017 · Leave a comment

my breakthrough.

There’s nothing like a full-blown panic attack. Except maybe a heart attack. But if you’re a panic attack survivor, you’d swear – at least the first time it happens – … Continue reading

August 24, 2016 · Leave a comment

Cub Scouts, gays, my son, and me.

It’s been a heckuva month. At long last, my son shall be enrolling in Cub Scouts, but it wasn’t a decision taken lightly, and I am worn after the effort. … Continue reading

August 17, 2016 · 1 Comment

princeton seminary, 2006

  About this time ten years ago, my first husband and I packed up our first apartment to move 700 miles south to our first home, kicking off our careers … Continue reading

May 16, 2016 · Leave a comment

Dear David

This message was given on Sunday, April 10, 2016 at Tennessee Valley Unitarian Universalist Church in Knoxville, TN. This is a compilation/consolidation of a correspondence spanning a three-year period and … Continue reading

April 11, 2016 · 1 Comment